i want to know your oppinion about something that happened to me today. i had a member in my room and after answering several questions for him i told him to come private if he wants to get more personal as all the models here would do. the member told me to "FUCK OFF" and left. of course i announced the monitor and the monitor's response was: it is not the members faul..answer questions to get privates. you pssed him off!. and i say hey, all i did is tell him to come private! and he tells me fuck off and it is ok??? i wanna hear ur oppinions about this. Quote

i want to know your oppinion about something that happened to me today. i had a member in my room etc etc etc

Was it one of the new "whites"? If so nothing surprises me although I do understand from this issue being raised in the VIP forum that they DO NEED to register a credit card to gain access. Not as some guys have been stating here in this forum that they just need a nickname and an e-mail address.

(Just hope it is not mum's or dad,s card)

If. however, it was an existing registered member, whether VIP or not, such responses are not to be tolerated.

BTW Anwar D - one bad apple does not always make the whole barrel bad.



Put it down down to experience and forget it. For every bad one there are many good ones.
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i want to know your oppinion about something that happened to me today. i had a member in my room and after answering several questions for him i told him to come private if he wants to get more personal as all the models here would do. the member told me to "FUCK OFF" and left. of course i announced the monitor and the monitor's response was: it is not the members faul..answer questions to get privates. you pssed him off!. and i say hey, all i did is tell him to come private! and he tells me fuck off and it is ok??? i wanna hear ur oppinions about this.


I am very sorry to read this.

What happened to you today is unacceptable in my book. No one deserves to be abused.

The monitor should have taken very firm action against this member.




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of course it was a white one, grey white one perhaps as pete said))..it is true one bad apple does not count. thx for the responses Quote

Wow Anwar that sucks man...no one deserves to be treated that way.

Our OPEN rooms are OUR time that we share so we can all get to know one another a little better and have some fun with the WHOLE room.

I usually answer a couple questions and then send a "generic" open room message saying "requests and personal questions answered in private...ready to get personal" or "undivided attention in private only guys;)".

Some regardless of their membership status think a model owes them their undivided attention in the open room and that is a silly thought.

I treat my regulars very well in open but also not to the point where it nullifies private time because most really enjoy the intellectual convo over the usual "exotic performance".

My only advice Anwar is next time you see the name take notes on them write away and have the right click button set at EJECT/SILENCE in case they act up again.

KJ.

PS: I have only called in a monitor once and of course they show up when the other party had left...take control of your room on your own big guy! Quote

That is a terrible and unnecessary thing for you to have to go through.

I do agree that there should be a posted and enforced behavior agreement that both guests and performers should have to adhere to.

Though I do not have the range of experiences with guests that you have as a performer, I have seen two performers be very rude to guests. One of them threw the finger at a white guest who was just trying to hold a conversation by asking questions and then kicked them out. Another was looking at his screen and not interacting with guests at all. When someone made a comment about it, the performer, who is in the top 20 list, by the way, made a gesture which means "fuck off".

So, though performers do take abuse at times, we customers do as well, and I have never reported anyone for it. Quote