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Male Performer Chat: When did u guy`s find out you are gay or bi ????

Created by: Armad Y

3/13/12 @ 8:59pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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So as the title say`s , i`m starting this new topic , becouse i consider really interesting when did you guy`s find that you are gay , and i think the most interesting part is that little story that everybody has of how he find out ( the moment he knew ) ..
I personaly feelt that I like boys , becouse ... as I grew up , my mom and dad broke up ...I chosed to stay with him of course ;and after a while he started to get a lot of male friends , they were always comeing home , we had lot`s and lot`s of fun like guys :D Somehow he started at first to like boys becouse , he thought that my mom was the only women that he could ever love , so he chose not to go with other womens , but instead he started seeing diffrent friends.. He always took care , until i grew up to hid the fact that he likes boys .
But as I grew it was starting to get more and more obvious ;
So here we were one night , me and dad and his friend called Tom ; Tom was like 38 years old , and in somehow i always liked watching him when he was swiming without his chlotes :D , Beautifull body !!
We were at a camp fire at a river , dad went to the car and then Tom moved closer to me , and grabed me "friendly" into his arms .. OMG
I instantaneous though of his hot body and my cock was up .. Dad came , and started yelling " Leave him alone Tom" and Tom said , "Come on isn`t obvious ? He likes it , I did u a favour " dad said again " No he is not" ....
Then I stood up to move from there , and dad saw that my cock was up , and he apologised to Tom . That`s when i and also my dad knew than I was gay .. since then and until now we have lot`s and lot`s of fun with friends . My world is perfect !!!!!

I`m anxious to hear your stories guys !!!!! Come on !!
:drinkup

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Created by: homo_erectus

3/14/12 @ 12:44am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: East Central Wisconsin
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I've been gay since I was born. It is not a coice you make. It is not something that just comes to you some day. To say otherwise is just promoting the dumb idea that homosexual orientation is a choice. And that it can be cured through counseling & prayer. Our sexual orientation is inborn. If you think it just came to you one day, well, you just go on thinking that if that makes you feel better.
P.S. Wether you were raised by your mother or father effected your being gay? Realy?

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Created by: Derek Donovan

3/14/12 @ 2:01am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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^^Yeah, what Homo_Erectus said pretty much. And Armad, are you trying to say that you are now gay because your dad's friend tried to molest you when you were a kid? Did I read that right? o_O

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Created by: Sammy Longsworth

3/14/12 @ 3:34am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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this sounds a bit...risque... O.O

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Created by: anniefrombrisbane

3/14/12 @ 4:16am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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honestly guys .. i wouldn't go off on him for this .. i don't know how it works, but i think we're all programmed to think we're "normal" or straight if you like ... and a lot of guys fight against being gay ... until they realise that they are, and accept it ... i think that's what he means here ... and yes .. i agree, u're born that way, and nothing can change it ... and to pretend otherwise is just sad ... how many gay guys marry for conventions sake ... i mean marry women ... and they're unhappy about their choice, and regret it ... these days things are more open.... and hopefully soon, gay marriage will be accepted everywhere ...

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Created by: Nicohlas Nash

3/14/12 @ 4:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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i like this type of forum.
very interesting and opening.

you can judge me if you want but when I was 13 I saw an ad for burberry where the guys were closer than friends would stay side-by-side.

After that I kept fantasizing about them being closer...

and then naked...

and then kissing...

and then I got my first full blown boner...

(this was in choir practice... I still were the cologne...)

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Created by: martyfromnewzealand

3/14/12 @ 5:18am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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I think what the model is getting as is when did you "find out", or realise that you were gay. I

don't think it was his intent that you had a choice to be gay in the matter at all.

Only ignorant people believe it's a choice.

Do heterosexuals have a choice to be straight ? No !!!

Do Bi-sexuals have a choice to be Bi? No!!! again

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Created by: Calvin Reynolds

3/14/12 @ 5:24am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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To categorize "gay bi straight" is so typical. The fact of the matter is, there isn't always just a category you can be put into, like a neat little filing cabinet.

"Oh I need a cute gay today, lets look what we have listed under the 'B's here in my drawer... aaaah, perfect. Bryan will do today"

No. Sexuality is not decided at birth either, and to think you are born with a foot fetish is naive. But to also attribute sexual preference solely to being raised is just as equally ignorant, for asking a "straight" man to be gay is just as impossible. It isn't something you choose, nor is it something you are taunt, nor is it something you are born with. Sexuality is an ever changing journey that EVERYONE goes through, regardless of social stigmas and labels, like "gay". If you only like cock, and you have one, great. You fit nicely into that filing cabinet. But good luck getting everyone else in there so neatly.

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Created by: naturaltop

3/14/12 @ 5:35am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Roughly half an hour ago.

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Created by: Matt Love

3/14/12 @ 7:26am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Sexuality is an ever changing journey that EVERYONE goes through

I think this pretty much hits the nail on the head. I know my own sexuality has changed over the years. In addition to acknowledging both sexes, some fetishes I've grown out of and some fetishes I've grown into as well.

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Created by: pj_456

3/14/12 @ 10:51am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It's not what you are it's who you are that really matters. The only advise I want to give to anyone is be yourself and be your own person. Don't let religion, anyone or anything tell you who to be and how to live. Everyone is unique in there own way and that is priceless. I have met many great people here (models and members) and I am a better person for it.

Sorry if I am :offtopic

but I thought this was a good place to say this.

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Created by: phil_usa

3/14/12 @ 11:31am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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...I seem to recall being attracted to boys in the 5th grade!! However, I did not act on this attraction until I was in the 8th grade.

There was no doubt after that, I knew I was definately gay after that wonderful day in my life. He was a good friend of mine and we stayed good friends for many years until he moved to San Diego after he was in the Navy. There is still a warm spot in my heart for him and there always will be.

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Created by: Paul Atreides

3/14/12 @ 6:54pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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...I seem to recall being attracted to boys in the 5th grade!! However, I did not act on this attraction until I was in the 8th grade.

Same for me, Phil. Looking back I always think "How the hell did I (and everyone else) not know?"

Then when I finally came out I, of course, got the "It's just a phase" talk. No, phases don't generally start as soon as you hit the earliest days of adolescence and lie dormant until you're of age to express them properly. A phase would be that period of a year when I was about 12 during which I thought I liked country music. :thumbsup

For me the time where I put my feelings with the concept of "gay" took place when I was looking at an issue of my mother's Cosmopolitan Magazine (Yeah, somehow I still hadn't figured it out at that point, talk about dense :orglaugh

). There was a Calvin Klein ad with a BEAUTIFUL model that had just the slightest hint of pubic hair showing above he's perfectly formed package. Insta-boner. Within the year my parents were finding some very interesting Google search suggestions in our family's web browser :winkwink

Thank you, Calvin Klein.

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Created by: ronnie-uk

3/14/12 @ 10:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I knew that I was about 90% gay from the age of 13. However, I had read that it might just be a phase.

For a few years I tried to push the 10%, and look out for girls that I liked. When I was 19 I had my first office job in London. I was rather attracted to one particular girl on the other side of the building, but didn't make any moves.

The following year, after I left that office, I met a guy I was very attracted to. We went to bed together. We had already swopped first names, but while we were in bed we swopped surnames too. His surname was the same as the girl in the office. He was her brother! I was delighted things turned out that way

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Created by: Paul Atreides

3/14/12 @ 11:33pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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And you haven't sold the rights to this story to a film studio yet?! Talk about a perfect romantic comedy...

:orglaugh

Awesome stories, guys.

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Created by: just2look

4/15/12 @ 12:26am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Tennessee
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when the attending doctor at my birth, had to have two nurses, and call for security.. to pull lme off of his crotch.!

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Created by: kheldarxy

4/15/12 @ 3:23am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I was born gay, but the first time I realized it was the night after I saw Star Wars for the first time. I had a wet dream starring Luke Skywalker.

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