today I have witnessed for a countless times the meaning of patience in the room, or better the absence of it, member and model alike:


members behavior:

I have visited today a very hot boy, only the second day online today, not my type at all, but still so nice, cute and entertaining, that I tipped him at least once for being such a pleasant host. And also to give him something for the things he showed to other members requests, who were not as nice as to give something even after several fulfilled requests. shame on you all who did that...!

Well, then another member came in. I have seen him often over time now, and he starts demanding that the model should do something to deserve a tip. Well, requests are fine, but you should tip the model for it, and not the other way around. Sorry guys, but we all know what happens in here...! Requests, and after the model does it, nothing happens on the tip side. but, it goes further.

That member was now demanding a group chat. first as a suggestion, then as a real demand towards the model. In between I was trying to explain what a group chat is to the model, because he did not know that. And I also raised concerns about the models ability to do a group chat. Because of his ranking, and because he had not a HD camera. BUT, that experienced model was bitching around that the model should contact his admin to get GROUP CHat, because he, the member, wants it now and not later. I will not bother you with my attempts to calm him or to get him at least to be more patient, it will only bore you to death.

Well, it did not happen for the first time I have witnessed it, and I find this very rude behavior. Just my humble opinion.


and now to the other extreme (model behavior):

we all know, that models are on here to earn money for their living, and most of us are here to take the models we fancy in general to entertain us in privates, group or party chats or other variation, or, to have company, to develop a level of friendship and so on. especially the last group is most likely the ones that spends a lot of credits in the models room over time as tips or for shows.

But is it then not strange that already the second line of a greeting is: hello muscle or MLB or whoever, are you hot, wanna private? I find this strange and sometimes very annoying, especially when I have never been to that particular model, nor have I ever spoken to him or seen a VOD of him to know of what I can "expect" or potentially "enjoy" with him. in appr. 50 % of those cases, I withdrawn from that model soon and do not get back, even though, the would interest me very much. my loss, but also the models ones.

and just to speak up against each attempt towards models from certain regions, or countries, that happens for all kind of models, everywhere on the globe. language is not alwayss the issue, umpropper training might be, or a wrong attitude. Well, that would be a topic for another post.


So, is it just me, but is there a tendency, that we all get greedy, losing patience and being rude to get what we want? wow, that is a very disturbing development.

Sorry for bothering you all with that, and my apologies, that I did not looked in the post list, if such a thread has been published yet.

Well, I hope for all of us for better and nicer times, where models and members can enjoy each other, without being freeloaders nor private hunters on the spot. And now I will sit back and await the bashing from all the ones, that do not disagree with me and will be upset with my attempt to make us all a lil more nice, understanding and patient with each other. Survival of the fittest, huh? Fine with me, but I will remain as I was raised to be nice, and polite and to treat as I would like to be treaten myself.

To all of you a great time and thanks for your patience and effort to come this far down.

Greetings from Germany

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MLB - you have seen the manipulative use of the "auto-greeter" program .

Some of the worst begging I have seen were premiere female models .

1 even asked in her auto-greeting message for birthday gifts from her wishlist days before her Birthday

Many had a message "[insert member name] tip me NOW 50/100 credits and I show you my boobs as a returning member to my room"

I "auto-close" my wallet to those models Begging should not be rewarded to members or models here


[ link to female performor thread ]

http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=15585&num_posts=18 Quote

MLB - you have seen the manipulative use of the "auto-greeter" program .

Some of the worst begging I have seen were premiere female models .

1 even asked in her auto-greeting message for birthday gifts from her wishlist days before her Birthday

Many had a message "[insert member name] tip me NOW 50/100 credits and I show you my boobs as a returning member to my room"

I "auto-close" my wallet to those models Begging should not be rewarded to members or models here


[ link to female performor thread ]

http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=15585&num_posts=18
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Thanks LickaU, but no. that auto greeting must have passed me by, as i was not often online since December anymore. But that auto "demanding" is a really ugly thing. And, I have never been to the girl side, so I don't know how models or members behave over there.

What a shame, that even human interaction is now made efficient by all costs to make the most profit...!

Still, have a great time LickaU and thanks for the link.

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Patience is important; however, an out of control user can take over a room. My recommendation to the model would be to ask the user to stop, if the user continues, silence them, and if they still insist on being trouble after the silent period expires, ban them. The model needs to keep control of the room at all times. It really isn't that different than a rowdy group of school students.

The auto-greet has been almost universally disliked on both the member and model sides. I don't expect this feature has much of a future. Quote

It is always nice to see a member who empathizes with the demands some members (and often guests) make of a performer. We honestly try to be as patient as possible when we are online.

Personally, I enjoy my interaction with both members and guests alike. Whether we are chatting about random daily events, playing a game of truth or dare, or simply engaging in some fun flirtation, it makes everyone happy when both the model and the members show a sense of respect and patience.

Thanks for highlighting the ugly behaviors models engage in MLB. I also visit some of the other chat rooms and find it very sad when a fellow performer hits me up for a private before I even have a chance to say hi. It's like walking down the street and happily making your way to a man dressed like santa asking for a donation... if one wants to approach and contribute, that is one thing. But when you are looking to contribute and then they hit you up with, "You got a 20 on you, don't cha?".... then that is distasteful.

Please be patient with the new models joining the site and assist them as they get started. Whispers came in very handy for this reason. When I first got started in late December, it was the guidance of members and models alike that help me set the tone I wanted for my chat room.

Hope you are doing well and have a fantastic weekend.

Cheers,
J.P.

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Patience is important; however, an out of control user can take over a room. My recommendation to the model would be to ask the user to stop, if the user continues, silence them, and if they still insist on being trouble after the silent period expires, ban them. The model needs to keep control of the room at all times. It really isn't that different than a rowdy group of school students.

The auto-greet has been almost universally disliked on both the member and model sides. I don't expect this feature has much of a future.


Thank you Kheldar for your reply and I hope, that your expectation will come soon to be true.

And i totally agree with a models controll over his or her room. members can support her in some ways to deal with other members, but he or she need to act and set up the rules for rooms behaviour. But, as a newby, it might need some experience to do it, and so I hope for the mentioned patience of "experienced" members too.

Have a great day, Kheldar

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It is always nice to see a member who empathizes with the demands some members (and often guests) make of a performer. We honestly try to be as patient as possible when we are online.

Personally, I enjoy my interaction with both members and guests alike. Whether we are chatting about random daily events, playing a game of truth or dare, or simply engaging in some fun flirtation, it makes everyone happy when both the model and the members show a sense of respect and patience.

Thanks for highlighting the ugly behaviors models engage in MLB. I also visit some of the other chat rooms and find it very sad when a fellow performer hits me up for a private before I even have a chance to say hi. It's like walking down the street and happily making your way to a man dressed like santa asking for a donation... if one wants to approach and contribute, that is one thing. But when you are looking to contribute and then they hit you up with, "You got a 20 on you, don't cha?".... then that is distasteful.

Please be patient with the new models joining the site and assist them as they get started. Whispers came in very handy for this reason. When I first got started in late December, it was the guidance of members and models alike that help me set the tone I wanted for my chat room.

Hope you are doing well and have a fantastic weekend.

Cheers,
J.P.




Hey J.P.

thank you for your kind reply and I wish you the same for your weekend, or better for your Sunday.

I am very glad that other people, models and members alike, helped you out in your first time. As I think it should be, because we are all here to have a great time, and models to enjoy the work that pays the bills.

Have a great time on here and only great experiences in the future.

Regards from Germany

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Patience is important; however, an out of control user can take over a room. My recommendation to the model would be to ask the user to stop, if the user continues, silence them, and if they still insist on being trouble after the silent period expires, ban them. The model needs to keep control of the room at all times. It really isn't that different than a rowdy group of school students.

The auto-greet has been almost universally disliked on both the member and model sides. I don't expect this feature has much of a future.



MLB - I very much agree with Kheldar's reply to you here.

You might like to see more about the ignore, silence and ban options in the topic: The Mute Button


http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=12407&num_posts=14 Quote