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Male Performer Chat: Why many members keep silence?

Created by: Jim X

5/19/11 @ 1:08am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Many guys enter in the room and do write and when write them they not answer? but stay in the room for a long time...What they want?

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Created by: rub2k

5/19/11 @ 6:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Just to look... its called voyeur... and some are just to shy to talk or dont know your language... lots of reasons... its not personal, just humans being humans... unpredictable

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Created by: Aman

5/19/11 @ 1:00pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Just to look... its called voyeur... and some are just to shy to talk or dont know your language... lots of reasons... its not personal, just humans being humans... unpredictable

THEY STOP IN YOUR ROOM FOR LONGTIME BECAUSE THEY GET 60-POINTS FOR STAYING IN SPECIFIC ROOM FOR 1HR...

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Created by: asti

5/19/11 @ 1:23pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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THEY STOP IN YOUR ROOM FOR LONGTIME BECAUSE THEY GET 60-POINTS FOR STAYING IN SPECIFIC ROOM FOR 1HR...

Aman, that would be a good guess if the 60 points you speak of could be redeemed for credits. However, as it is they are only redeemable for Power Boost points to give to performers. An hour is a long time to sit in a room for any reason when you don't intend to converse with that performer.

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Created by: Leonard L

5/20/11 @ 2:39pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Many guys enter in the room and do write and when write them they not answer? but stay in the room for a long time...What they want?

yep happenes a lot,personally im annoyed when i see that and i feel offended,and i dont agree with that,they can at least say "hello",i had a member in my room for 8 hours and couldnt do nothing and i had to let it go,really sucks when u talk with a person and he doesnt answer cuz probably hes palms and fingers are to busy with...things,using you in free area,i understand 1 hour but...8?and keep in mind that i really hate impolite people which is even worst when they do that,sitting,this is what i think :

-shy people 0.5%
-spending people 10%
-those who just talk for hours 50% (regarding the fact that im not workin only on 1 site,and im tryin to say that some of us are really busy and we need to satisfie a LOT of people)
-5% good friends and regulars
-and the rest are those "nose on top" members tryin to patronise you,rude,not giving a damn about what your doing here,tryin to make you theyr little sex doll,daddy cools to cool to say hello or to respect you

So dont tell me that most of them are shy sitting 8 hours in my room

) sounds juvenile to me

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Created by: Leonard L

5/20/11 @ 2:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Just to look... its called voyeur... and some are just to shy to talk or dont know your language... lots of reasons... its not personal, just humans being humans... unpredictable

voyeur for few hours?they dont know your language?well when you come on sites like this you need english,dont expect me to talk spanish or chinese or italian with you(if i can do it cool,why not,im not sayin its impossible),english is everywhere,the most spoken,so im talkin in english not in my own language,they must understand,and to me sitting in a room for few hours and then just go without saying anything has nutting to do with beeing human, no offence man, peace out

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Created by: rub2k

5/20/11 @ 5:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I respect your opinion... but voyeur is just that...watching... generally not talking...

You may not like it, but my statement "humans being humans" is simply a fact... its the guy/gal who cuts you off in traffic, throws a bag of garbage out his car window. the one who puts his barking dog out at night and keeps the whole neigborhood up. Bottom line... most humans dont give a F about anyone except themselves.

Also a human being human is getting irritated by the behavior of other humans not doing things the way they think it oughta be done... just say'n... its an epidemic... :P

PeAcE.. R2K

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Created by: male4622

5/22/11 @ 1:37am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: United States
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Well, I try not to be that guy, but I know I have before. Sometimes I'm here on site or I get called away to do something and realize I've left Flirt up in the background. Sometimes I also have Facebook, a blog or two, and two other sites up at once with Flirt going. If a friend of mine was online and logs off and I get booted into a room, it might be a while before I notice. Sometimes it's an accident.

In general, though, I think you're right. You either should speak when spoken to or leave. Voyeuring...especially in party chat rooms is not good, IMO, and unfair to the models. If I can't private or contribute, I usually am honest and tell a model what I can and can't do somehow. Then again, I always try to contribute to a conversation or something...

That is if I know I'm online with someone...which goes back to my first point.

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Created by: phil_usa

5/22/11 @ 10:24am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Well, I think it's rude not to reply to a model if he says hello or how are you. I'm not much of a talker until I get to know a model, but I always reply.

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Created by: Sebastian Hilton

5/22/11 @ 7:21pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I agree..it really makes it difficult to preform if there isnt anyone chatting yet there are many people ust watching. the interaction between customer and preformer is what really gets things hot and exciting. Especially with audio on, it is difficult to have people just remain silent and talk to yourself. I respect people wanting to see the dynamics of the room, what you do, etc but for hours at a time it really is tough for preformers to even know what the customers are into...

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Created by: rub2k

5/22/11 @ 10:02pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hours at a time is probably what a prev poster said, peeps with multiple screens... they leave the screens up and go out somewhere... shit happens... some folks are prob trying to build bonus points as well... which in the end is a plus for performers... and why do they use the tem performer... I prefer Model... Performer sounds like they should be juggeling and wearing a clown nose... which is ok if your into that chit... :P

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Created by: hawtsean

5/22/11 @ 10:21pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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voyeur for few hours?they dont know your language?well when you come on sites like this you need english,dont expect me to talk spanish or chinese or italian with you(if i can do it cool,why not,im not sayin its impossible),english is everywhere,the most spoken,so im talkin in english not in my own language,they must understand,and to me sitting in a room for few hours and then just go without saying anything has nutting to do with beeing human, no offence man, peace out

I hear you, but there is another side to this issue - anyone who agrees to be a performer needs to accept what their audience does - at least in terms of a free room. The point is to attract guys to go private or at least tip you, but no one is obliged to do that. Yes, to stay in a room for hours without even saying hi to the performer is crass and juvenile.......but that's life when doing webcam modeling and performing. I expect that you were advised of this when you signed up with F4F. I'm not at all saying that your feeling is wrong, just mentioning the reality of this type of free room voyeur arrangement.

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Created by: Sebastian Hilton

5/22/11 @ 10:22pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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lol well, i do get kinda kinky so preform depending on what i am doing is applicable..lol

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Created by: Leonard L

5/24/11 @ 7:58am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I hear you, but there is another side to this issue - anyone who agrees to be a performer needs to accept what their audience does - at least in terms of a free room. The point is to attract guys to go private or at least tip you, but no one is obliged to do that. Yes, to stay in a room for hours without even saying hi to the performer is crass and juvenile.......but that's life when doing webcam modeling and performing. I expect that you were advised of this when you signed up with F4F. I'm not at all saying that your feeling is wrong, just mentioning the reality of this type of free room voyeur arrangement.

in fact no, F4F says nuttin bout accepting a voyeur for 8 hours, guess bannin or all those powers a model have are with a reason 2, right?not to mention that F4F got rules, well, me, as a model, got my own rules 2

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Created by: Menino B

5/24/11 @ 10:08am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Many guys enter in the room and do write and when write them they not answer? but stay in the room for a long time...What they want?

I cant stand those ones either. I mean man, if you are watching me, why dont u say anything? I speak perfect english, i think most of the members speak english also. You guys can at least drop a "hi" or start a conversation. Its not like it will cost you or smth... Its really rude to stay few hours in a room just to get those credits and then go away in another models room to powerboot him

Maybe F4F should get a new rule... Automatic ban if the person stayes more than 30 mins in a models room without saying anything.

Just saying!

Regards,
Menino

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Created by: phil_usa

5/24/11 @ 11:07am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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It goes the other way also. Sometimes I go into a performers room and say hi or hi guys and don't get a reply. I wait a few minutes and then I leave. It isn't a one sided occurance.

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Created by: Menino B

5/24/11 @ 12:03pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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It goes the other way also. Sometimes I go into a performers room and say hi or hi guys and don't get a reply. I wait a few minutes and then I leave. It isn't a one sided occurance.

Come into my room, u are all invited to chat... Except for those "fingerless" members

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Created by: Leonard L

5/24/11 @ 1:12pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Come into my room, u are all invited to chat... Except for those "fingerless" members

dude can we keep it as a conversation? without advertising? please? thx

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Created by: Menino B

5/24/11 @ 2:20pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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dude can we keep it as a conversation? without advertising? please? thx

No disrespect "dude" but i want people to chat with, i dont think thats a crime or a invitation / advertise. I didnt say "come into my room to spend money on me", just replied to the man to see that there are nice ppl around here and willing to chat

Peace ;) ,
Menino

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Created by: Leonard L

5/24/11 @ 2:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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No disrespect "dude" but i want people to chat with, i dont think thats a crime or a invitation / advertise. I didnt say "come into my room to spend money on me", just replied to the man to see that there are nice ppl around here and willing to chat

Peace ;) ,
Menino

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