Each room is different. Each model is different. Personally, I enter a room and don't talk until I get a feeling for the room, the model, the other chatters. Is the chat in English? Are the discussions (if any) something I can add to?
The tone of this site has changed remarkably since I first joined many years ago. While you, Christian, may not immediately ask for a pvt many do. I have to get a feel for the models displayed personality before I am ready to go pvt. 
Just my
worth. Don't give up and I'll be sure to check out your room if I see you on.

My feelings exactly...

Five years ago F4F used to have the ambiance of a club or a bar where we all reunited
to chat,exchange ideas or yokes.

We knew the models by first name basis and they knew ours also.

They were
a lot less models but what it lacked in variety it made up in quality.

Not that the models now days lack manners,quality or education but there are so many
coming and going so fast it is impossible to maintain a long time friendship...
I agree each model is different and some rooms are not as friendly and a little pushy due
to the necessity of producing a minimum amount of privates...but the great majority of models
are super friendly and love to have an interactive audience that chats and makes the long hours
go by faster,in between privates.
Just my
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