Why would a proud gay man spend his money on a "model" despite declaring himself on this website as "gay" that repeatedly uses anti-gay speach and then laughs about it? This "model" should not be supported by proud gay dollars! Quote

Why would a proud gay man spend his money on a "model" despite declaring himself on this website as "gay" that repeatedly uses anti-gay speach and then laughs about it? This "model" should not be supported by proud gay dollars!


When this model uses anti-gay slurs, you should save the chat and send it to the website. Hopefully, they will do something about it.
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To all who cares about the gay community.... my complaint concerning the outrageous homophobic behavior from Haruko U to F4F has still not been answered! The lack of response is outrageous and only confirms my suspicions that F4F doesn't care about the gay community but only cares about their mighty dollars!
Join me in at least a boycott of the one homophobe here on F4F that i can confirm... Haruko U ... he called me a sic "foggot" many times in a I assure you a unprovoked way. Why spend money on someone that hates our community and us??? And is only here to decieve and pretend to be either gay (as his bio says.... when pressed he will admit he is straight) or bi..... which at that point is kinda silly since he just admitted he is straight.....
Many models here weather straight or gay have the best interest and respect for us as gay men..... why spend money on a model that mock us while pretending to be gay only to take your money??? Quote

Of course. I am surprised he has lasted this long. Do you think he's changed his ways? Perhaps he has. No one else has yet to complain about this guy. Some of the guys I've mentioned about banning abuse have disappeared or are seldom on.

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With the new thread about thanh Y and his homophobic remarks to another member, I wonder if F4F ever takes these complaints seriously? I also still wonder why other members look the other way and continue to private these models? Quote

Blazze, I feel for ya, buddy. As I've said some will go, yet some will stay.

Did you notice the forum on abusive models and the ban was eliminated? Quote

I was justed called a "faggot" again by Haruko U, when will F4F do something about the homophobic behavior about some of it's members? This is outrageous! Quote

I was justed called a "faggot" again by Haruko U, when will F4F do something about the homophobic behavior about some of it's members? This is outrageous!



why do you still go to his room? wouldnt it be better if you didnt go there? Quote

why do you still go to his room? wouldnt it be better if you didnt go there?


Damn, you beat me to making that comment myself!

Maybe a form of fetish - like verbal BDSM.






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Damn, you beat me to making that comment myself!

Maybe a form of fetish - like verbal BDSM.









fetish?how on earth did you know my middle name????
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Why are some of you belittling a pro-active approach to rid this site of homophobic behavior? There will always be some who visit a model regardless of his attitude, but that doesn't mean that the behavior should be tolerated. The "if you don't like it, don't go there" philosophy does nothing to address the more basic and hurtful aspects. Laugh if you want, but this was the same attitude espoused by even the non-Nazi Germans as the Nazis sent the Jews to their deaths. When you see intolerance, you must take an active approach to stop it. Quote

Why are some of you belittling a pro-active approach to rid this site of homophobic behavior? There will always be some who visit a model regardless of his attitude, but that doesn't mean that the behavior should be tolerated. The "if you don't like it, don't go there" philosophy does nothing to address the more basic and hurtful aspects. Laugh if you want, but this was the same attitude espoused by even the non-Nazi Germans as the Nazis sent the Jews to their deaths. When you see intolerance, you must take an active approach to stop it.



nobody is laughing, but following what you said if i eat something and i get an indigestion i should go on eating it? i just avoid buying it, maybe someone likes that food, if i dont like it it doesnt mean billions of people should not like it, if you know what i mean...and the comparison you just said it is a little forced, sorry for telling you and i hope i am not made myself misunderstood Quote

Why are some of you belittling a pro-active approach to rid this site of homophobic behavior? There will always be some who visit a model regardless of his attitude, but that doesn't mean that the behavior should be tolerated. The "if you don't like it, don't go there" philosophy does nothing to address the more basic and hurtful aspects. Laugh if you want, but this was the same attitude espoused by even the non-Nazi Germans as the Nazis sent the Jews to their deaths. When you see intolerance, you must take an active approach to stop it.



Why do you asked???
I might know a reason....or two...
FIRST: you can make it illegal to discriminate,BUT YOU CAN'T FORCE PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU!!
As someone that lived in the USA for several years I can tell you they have laws for and against EVERYTHING....but the crimes are still committed....( I know...that doesn't make it right either..)HOW DO YOU KILL believes????
SECOND: If you climb up a soap box in the center square under a banner of anti- discrimination,justice and equality for gays you can expect many to disagree with you because that is a DEMOCRACY....( kind of.)
THIRD:As a child I was taught NEVER TO GO WHERE I'M NOT WANTED...( It has worked wonders for me in business,social and family life...)
I went to apply for a job in Harlem a few years ago and a small gang of neighborhood cool dudes
told me in no uncertain terms "GET THE F*** OUT OF OUR neighborhood you white leather honkie
or we'll fill you up with led..." Of course I went to get another job...

FOURTH: Nazi Germans also killed millions of non Aryans,Christians,gypsies,twins, "mentally and physically unfit" and homosexual people.... The horror of what man can do to another human being will forever stain in blood the pages of History...We'll never forget that!!!!
Do you honestly believe these cases of a man calling another "faggot" is equally as relevant and dangerous????
We have HUNDREDS of other models you could visit... Why the hell do you go to the one,two three or four that dislike you???
FIFTH: This happens daily in real life and will continue to happen because 2.000 years of
religious,social and ethnic discrimination will take as long in disappearing....
Do you want to know in which of the 17 countries I have lived in I was more discriminated
against and called bad names???? Take a guess....On top the judges made me pay for new sets of dentures and a few knee caps..( I paid the fines with pleasure because those will NEVER call me
names again...)
SIXTH: Never forget Economics and Free Enterprise.Money talks and bull**** walks.If the model isn't making money he will be terminated and forever go away...The ONLY reason he must be here is because he is making $$$$$$$$ for the site and F4F won't fire him just because he doesn't like you and vise versa....
SEVENTH: You can't decapitate ideas!!!! The more you scream about "gay discrimination,homophobia and human rights" the more you annoy and alienate at least 80% of your audience...
This is NOT a site to discuss those subjects...
Yesss...even the gay ones get annoyed!!! Do what it was done in the USA in the seventies...vote with your wallet!!! ( Anita Bryan comes to mind...)

Why the hell do I tell you all these?
BECAUSE LIFE IS MUCH TOO SHORT AND SAD AS IT IS....Don't sweat the small stuff and the big ones will fall into place....Be happy and make happy the people near and around you and these ignorant rude characters could NEVER hurt you again.... because you are better than they are.....THAT IS A FACT!!!.

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Wow!!
Some of your recent posts have annoyed me...but this was brilliant.

Thank you. Quote

Wow!!
Some of your recent posts have annoyed me...but this was brilliant.

Thank you.



Sorry if I have annoyed you....Many times we have to step on some toes to be herd... Quote

LOL..

Focus on the compliment. It's much more significant than my irritability.
You made some insightful points.

Thanks again.
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Louis is right avoid the ones who are rude and enjoy the plethora of friendly, lively welcoming models.

I have moved on following my incident and have enjoyed chatting w/ several fantastic models.


Happy flirting gents Quote

Louis is right avoid the ones who are rude and enjoy the plethora of friendly, lively welcoming models.

I have moved on following my incident and have enjoyed chatting w/ several fantastic models.


Happy flirting gents



Smart man.You can't dwell forever in another persons opinions.
( You know...:opinions and an as***le everybody is got one..!! )
Geezzz...life will be over before we blink...Try to make the best with what life
dealt you..Common sense is not that common!!!.... Quote

yea thats screwed up there is nothing wrong with gays Quote

In perusing the forums, I found out that this guy was a Model of the Week! Go figure. Quote