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Created by: frenchparadise

9/3/10 @ 1:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hi everyone,
Do you think it's possible to fall in love with a performer? Or you performers are you ever fallen in love with a customer?
Your answers and anecdotes could be interesting.
I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies.
But I know a friendship is possible bewteen a performer and a customer. some customers are attached to a performer and with the time a virtual friendship can be born and why not a real friendship. But imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways.
Could you imagine have a performer like boyfriend?
Obviously I will not tell you if it's my case lol But I wonder about such a relationship.
I kiss you and i'm waiting your comments

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Created by: Luk A

9/3/10 @ 2:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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yes it's possible.. i love alot of models here :evil

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Created by: ballycallan

9/3/10 @ 2:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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yes it's possible.. i love alot of models here :evil

Once a slut , always a slut. :orglaugh

Bally

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Created by: Luk A

9/3/10 @ 2:18pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Once a slut , always a slut. :orglaugh

Bally

Don't be jelous.. i love u too Bally

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Created by: ourjeffie

9/3/10 @ 2:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I know an American girl who fell in love with a Bulgarian model

To cut a long story short, they got married and lived happily ever after

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Created by: ballycallan

9/3/10 @ 2:30pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Don't be jelous.. i love u too Bally

HAH , Only way you would love me is if I changed my name to Pizza , or Panino.

:orglaugh

Bally

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Created by: nathanjones1

9/3/10 @ 5:28pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Spend some time in almost any established model's room and you'll see at least one guy in love with him. I've seen many proclamations of love in freechat (and not just of the "you make me horny...I love you bb" sort either).

And yes, I've fallen in love with a model myself. Fortunately, it was a genuinely good guy who didn't do anything to lead me on or take advantage of my feelings. It will never lead anywhere, but it's been a nice experience.

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Created by: larryjames

9/3/10 @ 7:27pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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i think that you can and that no matter what performer need to be loved too.

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Created by: louisphillippe

9/8/10 @ 1:04am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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yes it's possible.. i love alot of models here :evil

Ahhh... Putana.Mala femina !!!!You tell the same things to all the handsome

boys when you think I'm not watching you...(ROFLMAO!!!).

:winkwink

Ti amo anciora africana bella!!! :evil

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Created by: louisphillippe

9/8/10 @ 1:15am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Not only is possible but almost mandatory. :angel

If you don't make your fantasies REAL here why would you come???? :guitar

If it wasn't that Administration will surely remove my comments I could

tell you many many great stories and anecdotes to make your toes curl up and your heart thump

very very hard.Not just personal but of many many friends here. :evil

But what happens in F4F stays in F4F.... :drinkup

It is so easy to fall in love here,the hard part is to get up and walk away.. :thumbsup

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Created by: loveheart

9/8/10 @ 1:27am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Fall in Love? No, I don't think so. Infatuation? Yes. Lust? Yes,of course. But Love? It would be difficult at best. There are too many obstacles to overcome. How do you share the everyday joys and sadness? How do you enjoy the warm comfort of arms wrapped around you? The feel of that kiss? The sharing of a knowing glance from across the room. The miles difference would be a toll on anyone. That being said, can too people have some form of relationship on here? Yes, I think that is possible. But without being within reach of each other... ever... I don't think true heart pounding Love is possible. But then again I am merely a jaded, old fucker who has lost his rose colored glasses long ago.

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Created by: Luk A

9/8/10 @ 2:12am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Ahhh... Putana.Mala femina !!!!You tell the same things to all the handsome

boys when you think I'm not watching you...(ROFLMAO!!!).

:winkwink

Ti amo anciora africana bella!!! :evil

What can i doif i like the beauty? :evil

Gigi pippo mi hai abbandonato bhooo :P :P :P

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Created by: frenchparadise

9/8/10 @ 7:00am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hi
I see that my post makes react many persons. And your opinons are different on the subject. Good! I think it's not possible to fall in love through cam shows and streaming videos. But obviously we can be attracted by a model and have an erotic feeling :orglaugh

It's not possible to replace a real kiss and many other things by a virtual relationship. It remains a virtual distant relationship. And there are several obstacles : the distance, the language sometimes...Yet i believe in a "love at first sight". And this kind of event can happen through a cam2cam. With the time and a lot of energy if each other want go further i'm convinced this virtual relationship can become a real relationship. Don't forget we are in the 21st century and now the web is a way to find love. Of course come on flirt4free to find love is a strange way but why not after all...all is possible.
I kiss you and you can continue to post your comments.

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Created by: Hadess

9/8/10 @ 9:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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never say never....everything is possible

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Created by: jwelbo00

9/8/10 @ 10:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I favor those who say "Yes" it is possible to fall in love with a model. When you find a model that you like and there is chemistry it is hard not too. The real issue at hand though is the emotional connection that is formed between the "Patron and the Model" not necessarily the "Model and the Patron" When emotional attachments are formed throw fantasy in the mix and anything can happen on our side of the coin.

Personally I really like one of my favorites, but I have to catch myself and remember that nothing can truly happen. What solidifies the "love" is IF or when the two are able to meet that if when the "rubber will meet the road" and then if the chemistry is there then fall. Nothing replaces the "real kiss or real touch" of another person.

I had a relationship that was solely based on Internet and phone conversations; it was great, but we were never able to actually meet so it never went anywhere. Here you can tell the model how you feel and they have to decide what the next step would be.

Fantasy, emotional, physical and intellectual attraction all play a HUGE part on this site. When all for of those are present and are in agreement. Then I would say it would be VERY hard not to fall for one of you guys on here.

Josh

:twocents

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Created by: frenchparadise

9/9/10 @ 6:45am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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WOW Josh i completeley agree with what you say. You analyzed the situation very well. Yes all is possible above all if each other are in harmony. But to realize this love "the meeting" is an essential step. I want believe that all is possible : a virtual relationship in the beginning can become a wonderful love story. Personally i can go halfway around the world to find the one i love. Ok maybe i'm too romantic :orglaugh

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Created by: jwelbo00

9/9/10 @ 10:22am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hey frenchparadise there is nothiing wrong with being a romantic. I have been a hopeless romantic for years...Lol!

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Created by: hzu99

9/17/10 @ 12:31am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Straight answer, Short Story about a former f4f model and me: it is possible, we get married next year and we even met 3 times in real live already, even if we both come from two totally different continents...

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Created by: ghghgh19

9/22/10 @ 9:12am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Australia
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Hi all,

I think it is very very possible to fall in love with a performer.

I have fallen in love with a performer and it's not because he's hot or anything we have been in pvt and done cam2cam and we have really just chatted.

i've spent over 5 hours in pvt with him and we just chat. no sexual stuff we just chat about our lives, what we like doing, what we don't like doing and who we are as people and we have formed a connection.

he says that i am his boyfriend but it's early days still. he tells his roommates he has found a boyfriend. he is from usa and i'm from australia.

he says he's coming out to australia to visit me and to see if something can happen.

so it is possible to fall in love with a performer...i am living proof

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Created by: frenchparadise

9/23/10 @ 1:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: France
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hey thanks for your message "ghghgh19" (your nickname is complicated lol). your message is hopeful. indeed i believe there may have a connexion between a model and a customer. a special connexion. but we need time to break down barriers. I advise you not to rush things. it's beautiful to build a relationship online and realize this relationship in a real meeting that may become a friendship or a love story. yes i think it's possible. but be careful there is always this question of money, the models are here to make money that's their business. unfortunately the money destroys everything and it's very sad. we must go beyond this concept of money, break the relationship performer/customer and it's very difficult. we just need time to give confidence to the other, have proof of his sincerity.

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