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Created by: musclestud

5/9/06 @ 4:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: lane21

5/9/06 @ 9:30pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Ok, I've got a new gripe now, and it has to do with beggars. No, I'm not talking about the chatters (we all know how obnoxious those beggars can be) - I'm talking about the models. I'm really getting tired of models begging for privates. There are so many nice models here, and I feel like many are my friends. But after a while it is difficult to constantly have your friends ask you for money, which is essentially what they are doing by begging for privates. If I am horny and they are what I am looking for, I will take them private - they don't need to ask. If I don't take them private, it is because I am not interested in them sexually. Time and time again I lose my friends here because as soon as you are nice to a model they assume you will take them private. My god, if I took even one quarter of the models private who have begged me for it I would be in the poor house. I really wish there was something the company could do to prevent the pressure put on us. Personally, I am about 100 times more likely to take a model private if they don't ask for it - if they really want that, they should try to turn me on, not pressure me.

Ok, I've got a new gripe now, and it has to do with beggars. No, I'm not talking about the chatters (we all know how obnoxious those beggars can be) - I'm talking about the models. I'm really getting tired of models begging for privates. There are so many nice models here, and I feel like many are my friends. But after a while it is difficult to constantly have your friends ask you for money, which is essentially what they are doing by begging for privates. If I am horny and they are what I am looking for, I will take them private - they don't need to ask. If I don't take them private, it is because I am not interested in them sexually. Time and time again I lose my friends here because as soon as you are nice to a model they assume you will take them private. My god, if I took even one quarter of the models private who have begged me for it I would be in the poor house. I really wish there was something the company could do to prevent the pressure put on us. Personally, I am about 100 times more likely to take a model private if they don't ask for it - if they really want that, they should try to turn me on, not pressure me.

Dude, I feel your pain! It is very obnoxious to constantly be asked to take someone pvt. Then, if you dont, you become the enemy! Or worse, IGNORED! I love to chat with some of these guys here who are super cool and not hard-pressed to private. I have my favs, sometimes I try out a new guy. But damn, I seem to find myself totally pissed off, or feel like a cheap asshole because im not going private everytime. Oh well, enough venting! Have fun, and be safe!

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Created by: stewier

5/9/06 @ 9:39pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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So long as f4f continues to add new model after new model and not pay models except for pvts we must expect models to beg for pvts both politely and bluntly, depending upon their needs and their personalities.
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Created by: hotnhorny

5/10/06 @ 12:58am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Well in all fairness to them they aint here to be your friends. They're here to make money. And they might be generally friendly people but they don't take this job to make freinds. You have to respect and understand that.

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Created by: stewier

5/10/06 @ 11:25am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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The best pvts I have with models are with those who have become my friends and we have learned what turns both of us on
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Created by: rebel-rebel

5/12/06 @ 6:35pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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To call the models beggars is a bit much...... they ask - and why shouldn't they........ we are the ones who surf from model to model...... we get to move on if we are not pleased or happy....... I imagine that most get pretty tired of the same questions over and over. I attempt to be kind to all models and just move on if I find someone in a bad mood....... cum on guys - how easy do you think this really is for them....... hours of waiting...... They deserve our patience......

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Created by: musclestud

5/13/06 @ 1:29pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Hollywood
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You're right - it is a bit much to use the term beggar. Beggar implies asking or pleading. Usually it's more of demanding. The begging comes after I politely say no about 3 or 4 times. Don't get me wrong - I fully understand how hard their job is. If they prefer me to not be there chatting with them if I'm not going pvt, that's fine - I can leave, and they can sit there in silence waiting. But asking me over and over again to take them pvt only turns me off more and more.

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Created by: rebel-rebel

5/13/06 @ 7:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I see your point musclestud........ there are some I avoid cause I know they will not communicate cause I don't have $...... I think I was feelin' sorry for them in my last post.... I had the silent treatment the other night after the threesome show......... mad cause I admittetd to being there...... Damn - that's one of the bennies for paying every month........ I said sorry and left....... but I was a little surprised....

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Created by: justsin

5/25/06 @ 6:47am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: Australia
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I personally feel that when you are in a room, you are a customer first and friend second. The model is perectly with in their rights to make money and if you choose to spend time at this website, you will have to expect to be asked for private sessions. I've been asked on numerous occassions, and when I can't, I decline.

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Created by: brandon2807

5/25/06 @ 7:13am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Yes . . knowing how to say decline nicely is an art! "oh you are so sweet but I can't right now babe". LOL.

Although I must admit, the ability to have a few different screen names is of great assistance. Sometimes I am not in the mood for a private, but just like to have a cute guy on my computer screen while I am working. I use one of my other names when I am just watching.

But . . when I am going to private . . well that is when I log in as Brandon2807 . . . and dress up in gold! LOL

Of all my screen names . . Only Brandon2807 ever goes private!

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Created by: potatochip

5/25/06 @ 2:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I think honesty with the model is the most important thing. After I have privated a few times with the same model, I tell him (in private) that I enjoy being private with him and will private him again when I have the money. He understands that asking me to private is not necessary because I will whenever I can.

I also think it is important to ask a model in the open room if you may take them private. They really appreciate being asked politely rather than just "Get hard for me now" and then take them.

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Created by: hottie9090

6/18/06 @ 1:45am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I agree about the honesty bit. Usually if you are honest with models, you can avoid an akward situation. However, some of them can be dicks (Understandabally, as they're just tryin to make money) when they realize you're not going to take them private at that very moment. On the other hand, I hate when users try to manipulate a model into doing things because they say they'll take them private, when they ultimately will not. It is funny though to see some of the different tactics models use to get privates (Some noticeablly more effective then others).

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