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Male Performer Chat: Unpleasant Interactions

Created by: ronnie-uk

6/6/11 @ 7:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: London, UK
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Thank you, Ronnie. If you'd like, please feel free to repost my post into a new post and title it as you see fit so that members (and models) can see & learn from it easily.

--AF

We're thinking on the same lines, Adam. There are various options to make sure that your valuable contribution is not lost as this thread inevitably slips down the list, to be replaced by the usual "I'm here" and "I'm back" type of posts.

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Created by: phil_usa

6/6/11 @ 7:19pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I haven't finished reading the whole post yet!!! LOL

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Created by: Adam Foxx

6/6/11 @ 7:32pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: lickau

6/6/11 @ 11:46pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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We're thinking on the same lines, Adam. There are various options to make sure that your valuable contribution is not lost as this thread inevitably slips down the list, to be replaced by the usual "I'm here" and "I'm back" type of posts.

Hey Ronnie and Adam
Here is old thread 2009 - current THEN .
A member's view point and guide .

http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=4315&num_posts=33

::qu ote_end::

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Created by: Elly Princess

6/7/11 @ 12:11am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I totally agree with you, I think all starts with nice conversations, if we both-model and customer don't have those, nothing to continue be possible)))
Have a nice day and good luck!
Kisses
Alex

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Created by: penthesilea

6/7/11 @ 3:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Hello men! I don't normally post to these boards, but I thought I'd add my :twocents

from the model's perspective & from what my experience has been here. :winkwink

Much love and friendship--Adam Foxx :thumbsup

PS--WOW--this post got away from me and ended up being super long. LOL Told you that I am a jabber box. :winkwink

adamn.. you rock.. said in one concise and well worded post.. what i warred with VS about, with VIPS about, and in regular chat about for 5 years. *kisses* and thank you..

*retires from ranting about all of this*

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Created by: Jake Trenton

6/7/11 @ 3:48am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Members: This is the kind of awesomeness we get from Adam on a regular basis on the model forum. The man knows his stuff. :drinkup

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Created by: Domenic Prize

6/7/11 @ 3:56am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Members: This is the kind of awesomeness we get from Adam on a regular basis on the model forum. The man knows his stuff. :drinkup

Uh huh!!!

The F4F Customer Bible!

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Created by: Adam Foxx

6/7/11 @ 7:39am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Thanks everyone!!! Glad to be able to help members and models alike in this small way. :thumbsup

--AF

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Created by: Bastien R

6/7/11 @ 8:51am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I agree, having random people pop in every five minutes just to be rude, and cast a snyde remark is bound to make some of us upset. I have patience if nothing else.lol and I recently almost knocked a hole in my wall, because someone decided that threatening me was hot... I simply told him to cool it down, and went on with my show, I love the majority of the guys I chat with, but like Adam said. Some customers are just mean. Yes, it's customer service ;) but we aren't on the phone telling you how to fix your cable.lol. What we do is a bit more personal, so there is a bit more offense taken when someone is demeaning in a room... not that they should react badly, but really, we're not robots...

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Created by: collegecamboi

6/7/11 @ 10:34am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: Basil Thompson

6/7/11 @ 11:11am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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yeah, but ive had a model literally curse at me because I asked how he was doing. He told me..."yeah whatever, this may be flirt for free but im choosing not to allow that option at the moment". He then went on to tell me that I didnt spend enough money in a previous private session and critized me on the fact that I didnt have my camera at a good angle in c2c. No badgering, no rude comments from myself. Was yelled at just for trying to engage the model in simple conversation. Isnt that what you models like?

I think venting when angry is okay. That sounds like a really bad experience and I hope you don't revisit the model. I also think you should report your experience to customer service. That's what I would do. I'm big on customer service.. if I don't like how I was treated, the WHOLE WORLD has to put up with me.

I don't know if you're new to this site or have been here for years. But that's not the way most models will treat you. If you come into our rooms and are nice and respectful that's the same way we will treat you. With that said, come in and act like an asshat and I'll leave you on the floor clutching what's left of your crotch crying for momma. :winkwink

Obviously this is a money-based site; gifts and private time in essence buy affection to a point. However, we love to be doted on, even if it's just complements and attention. We do flirt for free!

Whether a guy spend one minute in private with me or 30 minutes in private with me I respect that and am thankful for the experience. I know guys only spend what they can afford and I'm not pushy or demanding about spending more. As long as he's clear about how much time he's going to spend and what he wants during that. See my thread called "Communication". And I think other models would agree with me.

You said: 'Was yelled at just for trying to engage the model in simple conversation. Isnt that what you models like?' Actually, sometimes I like deep conversation too. :winkwink

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Created by: Adam Foxx

6/7/11 @ 2:26pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: Jake Trenton

6/7/11 @ 9:56pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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That is NOT acceptable behavior at Flirt4Free. You should contact VS, and report the incident, along with the time it happened. If something like that happens in a private/multi-chat, VS would very likely offer a refund for the chat. Sorry that happened to you. Not cool at all. --AF

It's not cool, but some models get fans because of that sort of behavior. Some guys are into divas (or divos for guys? (not to be confused with DEVOs, unless you want someone to whip it, whip it good.))

I say simply never visit that model again and the problem's solved.

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Created by: Jayson Scott & Juan Gotti

6/7/11 @ 10:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Of course; however, that was not the point I was making. I am fully aware that I can simply go into another models room, as is everyone else. The point I was making is that I do not like how the site does not allow users to post their true opinions when sending in review. I should not be denied a comment just because I did not approve of my treatment. F4F needs a better system in place to keep models on their P's and Q's.

You do have a point you should not be treated unfairly or rude by any model. No offence though if you were blunt with how you spoke to the model (s) like you are in this thread then maybe thats why it went down like that bb. You say your not bashing the site, but by saying f4f needs a better system to keep their models on their P's and Q's thats kinda ...w.e ....their system is fine. You must take into consideration as well that NOT every customer that comes into models rooms are as nice as some of you may be. There are alot of jerks that visit models rooms daily/every hour. Its not an easy job. F4f's system is just fine. If you have a complaint on how you were treated or if you feel you were treated wrong then thats when your supposed to contact customer service. By having a place for customer's to post bad things about others would be a disaster for the whole network and everyone that comes here daily to visit friends & models & fans. Each model can run their room and have their own rules and regulations on what they want to do or etc. As long as it is approved by their studio. Dont get me wrong , we NOT saying ANY model has the right to be rude or disrespectful, mind you neither should the customer. Things can appear different in words, then if actually spoken from the mouth. The model should be using audio anyways so that issue wouldn't be an issue ya know. Everything on the network is monitored and goes to administration for approval even the rooms are watched of course, so you never know maybe things are being seen that are wrong and being addressed in a proper manner anyways. Just let karma deal with people that do you wrong, you dont always have to get them back. But anyways, lol. You dont have to worry about all that from us ;)

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