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Created by: homo_erectus

3/18/12 @ 4:46am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: East Central Wisconsin
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It's me again. Now I'm noticing white & yellow members making rude comments about the models looks or the way thier voice sounds. Guys, come on, Realy??? If you don't like the way a model looks you move on to another model you do like. There is no reason to insult them in thier own chat room in front of other viewers. That's just bad behaviour. If you don't like how they look or sound don't say anything. Just move on. The only time I ever say anything negative in a models chat room is if they are giving a full blown Free Stroke & Cum Show in Free Chat. And even then, I keep it polite, state my point, & leave. Guys, there is no reason to hang out in a models chatroom & insult thier looks or thier voice. Last time I checked we have to be 18 or over to join, so act like it. And once again, quit begging & demmanding free peeks. That's for grey customers/users. If you are a signed member you should know better. What these guys do for our benniffit is not easy. And they are here for our entertainment. Not as ours to treat like a trained monkey. I think it's insulting to the models to always ask for freebies

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3/18/12 @ 5:14am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: ronnie-uk

3/18/12 @ 11:25am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Completely agree, Homo_Erectus. Sadly, there will always be a small percentage of members who behave badly. Most of them don't use the forums, so won't read topics like this.

These members will continue to behave badly if the models allow them to do so. Models have various options for dealing with these badly behaved members, including the ignore, silence and ban options discussed in the topic The Mute Button:

http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=12407&num_posts=14

Every now and then a member who has been banned will use the forums for the first time to make a complaint. He will usually say: "All I did was...." He might even say he is going to leave the site and never come back.... :thumbsup

In these situations I tend to be on the side of the model. They have to put up with a lot, and are of course free to run their rooms as they wish.

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Created by: barrygill

3/18/12 @ 12:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Very Good reply Ronnie UK, There are some on this site that are self-appointed busy bodies, and they make the rest of us angry instead of bring joy and friendship. I really think the Model needs to control their room the way that they want it to go. I have seen a person insult a Model at first and then change their tune fast after they see that this is a nice person, it really fall's in the hands of the Model's to direct their room. I do have to admit though I wish I was a Monitor at times, just to be helpful and to stop some jerk from going on and on, I have learned to not pay attention to the jerk's on the site and let them be banned and say BYE to them when it happens. You can also call Customer Sevice at Vs and let them know the user's name and what they said in that Model's room to be helpful to the Model, Let's all try to get along and become a big Happy Family. :thumbsup

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Created by: pj_456

3/18/12 @ 8:10pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: anniefrombrisbane

3/18/12 @ 10:28pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Great post, Paul .. and good comments from everyone. Can i add something else that annoys me.... when a model is experiencing what we call a "tip-wave" ..with purple rain, sprinkles .. whatever they have, and want to give ... it is up to the tipper(s) to make requests ...some random grey-user or registered member saying "why aren't u naked? ...u just got tipped 1000 credits .. what sort of model are you?" and such comments like that .. totally unnecessary!! Many models are tipped because they're loved and popular, not for shows.

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Created by: homo_erectus

3/19/12 @ 3:43pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: East Central Wisconsin
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Agreed Annie :thumbsup

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Created by: Romy Pit

3/19/12 @ 6:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Great behaviour call

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Created by: ricamore

3/21/12 @ 4:39pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: USA
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Paul, your comment was right on target and I totally agree with you. Such behavior is juvenile and petty, especially when a model is here to make a living and entertain viewers. Grey users are notorious for such ridiculous behavior and I have seen a very small percentage of this behavior occur with regular members. No one is twisting your arm to be in a chat room. Simply move on, if you are not satisfied by what you see. The model should be in complete control of his/her chat room and they have the option of banning at their discretion. :thumbsup

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Created by: homo_erectus

3/21/12 @ 6:22pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: East Central Wisconsin
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Thanks for agreeing ric. Since I originaly wrote this I saw even more members behaving like greys. Come On Guys!!!!!! Quit insulting the models, quit begging/demmanding freebies.

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Created by: bobbo2011

3/21/12 @ 8:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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AMEN !!!!!!Lets treat these models with respect; and when possible, try telling the non- members about joining for free and getting the free 120 credits to use on the model to see "stuff".lol. But Yes,,we need to act appropriatly and set an example for the rest......... :thumbsup

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Created by: Ben D

4/1/12 @ 4:00am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Paul,
Thanks for standing up for the models with the members . . . we ALL appreciate you standing up for us. It is always a pleasure having you guide members and non members to appropriate behavior in our rooms.
As models we have to remember the grey (non members) are having their behavior affected by the "fake" members and non members in our rooms that only non members see saying lascivious things to us. The fake members and non members make all sorts of dirty suggestions members and models do not see and react to.
Thank you for always encouraging non members to join, once they see what is appropriate in our rooms, they usually behave in a more appropriate manner.
Best
Ben

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Created by: anniefrombrisbane

4/1/12 @ 5:48am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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this is true .. only grey unregistered users see all the bots ... which can apparently be grey, white or even gold ... and make the grey users think that it's OK to say the rudest and most inappropriate comments ... like "wow look at your chest" to an empty chair ... but get them signed up .. and they can be great on here .... shame they can't read the forums until they register ...

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Created by: totallybogus

4/1/12 @ 7:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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this is true .. only grey unregistered users see all the bots .....edit edit edit...shame they can't read the forums until they register ...

Anyone can read the forums. You don't need an account for that. However, you do need an account to contribute to the forums.

And yes, the mindset of grays is influenced by the spam they read in the chatroom. Maybe the site should rethink what it has programmed the bots to say.

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Created by: toetwister

4/1/12 @ 10:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
Location: USVI in body, Japan in spirit
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Amen to all the above, from one for whom pleasant conversation and a sociable atmosphere is at least as important (depending on my mood) as a sexy time. It's especially annoying to me when folks try take advantage of a relative newcomer's inexperience. We've lost a few very promising guys who I suppose just thought it wasn't worth putting up with, or at least that's my impression.

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Created by: mesaguy

4/1/12 @ 1:27pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: massivemm34

4/2/12 @ 4:08am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Thanks for agreeing ric. Since I originaly wrote this I saw even more members behaving like greys. Come On Guys!!!!!! Quit insulting the models, quit begging/demmanding freebies.
Only been here a week, and I can honestly say that im sure this will never end. Only solution really is to block greys... I'd think. Just sucks... cause I gotta a few pretty cool friends who are greys

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Created by: Alessandro May

4/3/12 @ 3:24am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Amen

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