In fear of perpetuating this discussion too far I must ask did I really "gang-up" on him, Louisphillippe? I wrote two explanations of my opinion, and you yourself said it will be a sad day when one cannot express their own opinion. I wrote the explanations with politness and civility in mind. Now, once I click the "Post Your Reply" button I cannot dictate how they are received by the reader.

With that said, I also apologized twice for any misunderstanding from my comments. Now I was taught, growing up, that when an apology is offered it should be accepted and the parties involved move past the issue. Not once but twice and apology was offered and that seems to be lost on some posters.

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A quote from one of Brads initial post in the straight forum (I think it's also valid for "gay" forum):

As an added bonus, this forum is available to performers as well. They can start their own threads or reply to existing threads. Think of it like a community ... because it is!

For instance, someone might post a thread looking for the best performer to do an underwear fetish show. Then a performer may come by and say that they do underwear fetish shows and that they'll be online in 30 minutes . Later on you might hear from other customers suggesting various performers, etc.


I also think it is not necessary for any performer (neither it will help him) to post every five min that he/she is now online - but somehow it is one of the initial ideas of the forums - next to build up a community.
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I by far wasnt attempting to come down on a preformer just got very frustrated seeing the same names with multiple threads with schedules and other variioua things numerous times daily. As far as emailing, no we do not have the ability to do so because I wouls have dont that since in ine of my posts, I was trying to explain why all that wasnt necessary. Out of everyone who had something to say, why would you pick my responses to critique? I just missed the forum when it gave preformers ideas on how to spice up pvts, not what it is now. Trust me, I wont be posting again cuz it seems like whenever I speak, there seems to be an issue..lol..I have learned my lesson.




NOOO... if you aren't part of the solution you're part of the problem... and always remember... Some days you're the dog but some days you're the fire hydrant. That's just how life works.
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In fear of perpetuating this discussion too far I must ask did I really "gang-up" on him, Louisphillippe? I wrote two explanations of my opinion, and you yourself said it will be a sad day when one cannot express their own opinion. I wrote the explanations with politness and civility in mind. Now, once I click the "Post Your Reply" button I cannot dictate how they are received by the reader.

With that said, I also apologized twice for any misunderstanding from my comments. Now I was taught, growing up, that when an apology is offered it should be accepted and the parties involved move past the issue. Not once but twice and apology was offered and that seems to be lost on some posters.





NO..NO...NO!!!! I wasn't referring to you at all!!! In fact I hadn't red your
posting until now.I had to go back and read yours and I can assure you you did nothing of
that sort!!! I was talking about MY experience a while back but in no way I implied
you had acted maliciously at all!! I just mentioned that 5 or 6 members that
seem to know it all all of the times, would constantly pester ME with less than amicable
postings. I'm sorry if I gave you the impression that I was calling you a gang of 1...
I understand and respect your point of view and the more people we get to chat in
an amicable courteous manner the better the Forum would work. I'm glad you mention your misunderstanding with me,otherwise we would never have the chance to explain each other.
Your apology the first time I think it wasn't ignores at all,just not mentioned perhaps ???.
I sincerely admire your clear educated and constructive posting and I hope to hear more often from you....

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Louisphillippe, thank you for the kind words sir. Quote