I've been a member here for many years now and thought I would share a little story of my own , although not a love story it is a story of geniune friendship that developed from flirting here.

I visited a model here a few years ago, just dropped into his room one day... and simply chatted for maybe an hour or so , I did not pvt or anything nor was I asked to pvt , but enjoyed a bit of a laugh with this model. At this time I had a "favourite" that I would pvt quite a bit so really i did not return to this model for some time.
But I did eventuelly go back and chatted some more and had a pvt or two , ended up spending many hours on flirt chatting with him and having fun in a great chat room , I guess I becam a frequent pvt visitor too , but our pvts would seem boring to most as we simply chatted ( and laughed ). Our friendship grew and eventually some personal details were exchanged and we contined our online friendship both on and off flirt ( sorry flirt ).
After some time I began to wonder would it be a god idea to meet up in real life and cement the friendship...... I was nervous about asking if he wanted to meet up ,I guess it would kinda have been make or break - if he said no then there was no real point in continuing and online friendship that was not going to develop.
Happily he said yes and was genuinly happy at the thought of us meeting. Its kinda funny , you spend hundreds of hours chatting to someone online or on c2c or phone , but that moment before I walked though the doors of passport control in the airport ( where he was waiting to collect me) I was so nervous , but have to say all nerves vanished and we spent a week together becoming even better friends . A year later we had a fantastic 2 week vacation and this year will spend the Christmas holidays with him and his family.

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hey in_cog_nito what a beautiful story. very beautiful. I thank you for having shared in this post. Obviously guys my post is not innocent. I'd want live this story with a model i met here on flirt. And that's why i'm happy to read your comments and your experiences. Quote

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Hi everyone,
Do you think it's possible to fall in love with a performer? Or you performers are you ever fallen in love with a customer?
Your answers and anecdotes could be interesting.
I know it's an erotic simulation website and we're there to achieve our fantasies.
But I know a friendship is possible bewteen a performer and a customer. some customers are attached to a performer and with the time a virtual friendship can be born and why not a real friendship. But imagine for a moment that you felt before your cam a sudden feeling, a sort of unexpected "love at first sight". Sometimes life is so strange and sometimes love is so complicated and don't take the easiest ways.
Could you imagine have a performer like boyfriend?
Obviously I will not tell you if it's my case lol But I wonder about such a relationship.
I kiss you and i'm waiting your comments


anything its possible in this life Mikael
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My humble opinion...

To me this is the virtual extension of real life. That means anything and everything goes, as it's a safe way to push boundaries and experiment with stuff you might not venture into in person.
I've developed amazing relationships with three clients, but i can't see myself falling in love.
But then again - I don't easily open my heart in real life either.

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Well, I am "in love with" Tristan Tyler...I can't get enough of that boy...*sigh!* Quote

I know that in the last six months, I have come to treasure a lot of the friendships I have with some of my customers. It's a different kind of love Quote

after reading barley any of this convo it is possible to fall in a somewhat love with a performer i know i have more than once and im a model myself lol so what does that tell you lol. tho i would be different to meet htem in real life. thats my views on it its possible but most times not lead into real life Quote

That's why I put the "in love" in quotation marks...what you are really "in love" with is your fantasy of who that person is.
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Yes It is possible, I did. I fell in Love with a Model from Russia. I traveled there and spent a few days with him. i paid for his University. I was very much in love. He was not. It was a very sad and expensive love affair. When it was time for him to come to USA I purchased his Air Ticket. He never used it.
I was foolish and heart broken. I had never been so much in love.
I stayed away from F4F for two years. I just came back.

I see how much the sight has changed.

Stay well and Safe. Quote

Yes It is possible, I did. I fell in Love with a Model from Russia. I traveled there and spent a few days with him. i paid for his University. I was very much in love. He was not. It was a very sad and expensive love affair. When it was time for him to come to USA I purchased his Air Ticket. He never used it.
I was foolish and heart broken. I had never been so much in love.
I stayed away from F4F for two years. I just came back.

I see how much the sight has changed.

Stay well and Safe.



That's why the site punishes with bann models giving outside info... to prevent members being cheated by them.
A serious model will never ask u to send him money. Quote